Bom-Wrapper

Elizabeth Dougherty

Elizabeth L. "Betty" Dougherty (Lucas)

Saturday August 28, 1926 - Monday November 9, 2020
Recommend this to your friends.
Share via:

Sign in to the Family Interactive Login

The Family Interactive feature enhances An Amazing Life. Authorized family members can securely access their loved one's memorial website settings at any time.

Share Book of Memories with a Friend

Please enter the name and email details so that we can send your friend a link to the online tribute. No names or addresses will be collected by using this service.

Email Sent

Your email has been sent.

To share your memory on the wall of Elizabeth Dougherty, sign in using one of the following options:

Sign in with Facebook

OR

Sign in with your email address

Your condolence has been submitted for approval. There may be a delay before posting.

Provide comfort for the family by sending flowers or planting a tree in memory of Elizabeth Dougherty

No Thanks

Contact Funeral Home

Please enter your question or comment below:

Email Sent

Your email has been sent.

Elizabeth's Tribute Fund

  •  Full Name
  •  Initials
  •  Anonymous
By continuing, you agree with the terms and privacy policy.

Elizabeth's Tribute Fund

There may be a delay while processing. Please do not click the back button or refresh while a payment is processing.

Obituary

On Monday, November 9, 2020, our wonderful mother, Betty Dougherty passed away at 94. Betty was born Elizabeth Anna Lucas on August 28, 1926 in Camden, NJ to Charles Lucas and Anna Smolko. Betty was preceded in death by her husband Francis Joseph Dougherty, brothers Joseph and Richard Lucas, and her sisters Hilda Hubert and Marie Dougherty. Together they raised 3 children: Tom married to Rose of Mantua, NJ, Eileen married to Craig of Powell Butte OR, Brian married to Josephine of Sewell, NJ; and granddaughter, Amanda Dougherty engaged to Jason Sherman, of Clarksboro, NJ. Betty and Francis lived in Oak Valley, Deptford Twp., and Washington Twp., NJ until they retired and moved to Florida. After Frank passed Betty moved back to Mantua.

Family and Friends may visit from 9 am to 10:30 am on Wednesday, November 18, at Smith Funeral Home, 47 Main Street, Mantua, NJ. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 am on Wednesday, November 18th, at Church of the Incarnation, 240 Main Street Mantua, NJ. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the St. Vincent de Paul Society c/o Church of the Incarnation, 240 Main Street, Mantua, NJ 08051 or the charity of your choice. Memories and condolences can be shared at www.smithfhmantua.com

Eulogy from Betty's daughter Eileen

My mother was holding a snapdragon flower in her hand. We were kneeling in the grass, our heads together. “Very gently, squeeze the flower on the sides like this, and see, it snaps like a dragon”. This is one of my earliest memories of my mother, her showing me how to snap a snap dragon. Beauty, wonder, and happiness in one gesture of love.

Mom was, simply great. She always tried to make everything better, special. Always trying new things. She was playful, happy, loving, and extremely patient. She knew how to have fun and loved to dance and sing. I remember being amazed watching her and dad dance a waltz together. They glided through the room so elegantly will such grace and style.

Though she grew up during the Great Depression and World War II without a father, everything she did was beautifully and skillfully done. While we were growing up, she had many hobbies. She awed us with her crafting skills. She made scented candles that looked and smelled like ice cream sodas. She made fancy bonnets for each of my guests for one of my birthday parties out of crepe paper and cardboard. They were glorious.

Tom remembers a pirate themed party she threw for him: eye patches, hats, and of course: swords! Boys being boys, however, that would be the one and only party.

Mother sewed me a Mary Poppins costume for Halloween: the skirt, jacket, hat, and a carpet bag with lots of room for candy -lots of candy! With enormous patience she taught me to sew. When little, Tom showed Dad how mom “scotch taped” the foot of his pajamas together (his words, she sewed them together after a rip -think unruly pirate). Only recently she told me she hated to sew.

We enjoyed long summer days swimming at the local lake while mom sat in the shade chatting with the other mothers. Several times a summer we loaded up in the station wagon and headed for the beach, stopping in the pine barrens to have lunch. We ate homemade sandwiches sitting on the folded down door, swinging our feet with the smell of hot pine needles in the air.

She was a great cook too, from pot roast to holiday turkeys to school lunches that always included a Tastykake and an apple. I remember coming home from school to chocolate chip cookies fresh out of the oven.

We are going to miss you mom more than we can express. We will remember you every time we smell fresh baked cookies or hot pine needles in the summer, and while we sit on the beach on hot summer days. And for me, there will always be snapdragons in my garden. You us so much love and made our lives beautiful.
Read Less

Sign Up for Notifications

Receive notifications about information and event scheduling for Elizabeth

Service Details

  • Visitation

    Wednesday November 18, 2020 | 9:00am - 10:30am
    When
    Wednesday November 18, 2020 9:00am - 10:30am
    Location
    Smith Funeral Home
    Address
    47 Main Street
    Mantua, NJ 08051
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Mass of Christian Burial

    Wednesday November 18, 2020 | 11:00am
    When
    Wednesday November 18, 2020 11:00am
    Location
    Church of the Incarnation
    Address
    240 Main Street
    Mantua, New Jersey 08051
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Interment

    Wednesday November 18, 2020 | 12:45pm
    When
    Wednesday November 18, 2020 12:45pm
    Location
    Calvary Cemetery
    Address
    2398 Marlton Road West
    Cherry Hill, NJ
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email

Condolences

We encourage you to share your most beloved memories of Elizabeth here, so that the family and other loved ones can always see it. You can upload cherished photographs, or share your favorite stories, and can even comment on those shared by others.

No video recorded.

Private Condolence
CB

Corrine Brickner

Posted at 06:35pm
I remember Betty from her participation in the various exercise classes at Incarnation Church. Everyone loved Betty. She was an inspiration coming to those classes and doing her best. She was lovely to talk to and always had a smile. I missed her when she was unable to come any more especially to the Zumba class where our instructor always played her favorite "The Twist" when Betty came to class. She was young in many ways. My condolences to her family. Corrine Brickner
 
EO

Eileen Obermiller Posted at 01:14pm

Thanks Corrine, mom loved going to Zumba classes and I'm sure she enjoyed you company as much. Eileen
Loading...

Photos & Videos

Photo Album

Upload up to 10 images at a time, max 8MB each
Share by: