Bob hid his soft side . When i was in high school i did not have the money to go to Wildwood to the Fireman Convention.   Bob heard that i did not have the money to go and told me to meet him at the fire house Saturday morning.   Bob took me to Wildwood and paid for my lunch and dinner and anything else I needed. He told me to keep it between us.  You know Bob was not a rich man but he gave me a day I will always rememder.  That is the side of Bob that I saw.  The secret is out Bob you had a soft side.